Breaks like Christmas/New Year, Diwali, Chinese New Year and other communally observed holiday periods are a great time for reflection. It is a good time to reflect, not only on our approach to work, but our approach to our life.

To make the reflection period useful, follow four principles.

Brutal Honesty:

For reflection to be worthwhile, be brutally honest. Do not allow excuses, rationalisation and passing the buck to others to cloud thoughts. Be accountable for wherever we find ourselves compared with where we want to be.

Powerful Questions:

Ask powerful questions of ourselves. Questions which challenge our abilities and commitment to achieve what we want. Questions which will challenge whether the goal we have set is demanding enough.

A good question is, “If I could start again with a clean sheet of paper, what would I do?”

A good follow up question is, “What is stopping me from doing what I would do with a clean sheet of paper?”

Often the answer to the second question is “Me”. This answer should beget a series of searching questions that unravels the personal and external factors which limit our achievement of what is possible over what is reasonable.

A more powerful question if we are willing to be honest with ourselves is, “What would I do if I was not afraid?”

The follow-up question is “What is it that I am afraid of?” This question will challenge our thoughts about our leadership.

The answers to powerful questions like these provide us not only with insights on what we need to do to achieve our goals, but also insights into our mindset. It is surprising how far we deviate in the hurly-burly of day-to-day activities from what is needed to achieve our goal.

Drive deeply:

Take the opportunity to drive deeply into what limits us from setting and achieving tough goals. Use a technique like the Five Whys to drill down to the real problems we face rather than the symptoms.

Use a technique like decision trees to delve down on the impact of the changes that seem obvious to us now that we are thinking from first principles rather than accepting the status quo.


src:https://www.changefactory.com.au/our-thinking/articles/think-clearly-act-decisively/